Internal vs External Emotional Language: Why Both Matter

The 2 important functions of an emotion is to communicate with others through the “language of emotions” and also to communicate with ourselves through our own emotions. This forms a significant part of our non verbal communication externally and internally.

Being great with one does not mean that we can be great with the other. In my mind, they are two forms of “emotional intelligence”. One is more important for “social intelligence” and the other is more important for “self intelligence”.

In counseling work, the challenge I often see is that many can struggle greatly in these domains and hence, impacting relationships and/or self esteem.

I wonder if you have seen what I have seen.