Doing things that is of value to the group or is valuable to the group, will likely to make the group happy.
Doing things that is of value to us or is valuable to us will likely to make us happy.
Too much focus on one will often come at the cost of the other. It’s difficult to balance at times isn’t it?
In counseling, we often see a blindspot in the latter.
Helping folks to define and follow their values, but still make it workable for the group is the aim in these cases.